Making sense of it all

Driving to Masterton again

Each day at 4:30 my brother calls in at the rest home to see Dad. My visits can be months apart. Five minutes after you've left, he’ll have forgotten you were there, but every time, his face lights up and it’s a warm happy visit.

Tim takes care of almost everything and we're very grateful to him. You’ll be with him when his phone rings and after a pause …